Finding Your Tribe
Journal therapy pioneer Kathleen Adams writes in her book, Scribing the Soul – “Humans are tribal people.”
Yes, we are. It explains the human need “to belong.” And in periods of pain, darkness, and disconnect – it is imperative to make that connection with “one’s tribe.”
No one understands a feeling or a situation any more than someone else who has been through it – or who may still be going though it. This is what “finding your tribe” means to me.
If you’ve ever felt disconnected – or on the outside looking in – I highly recommend David Whyte’s collection of poetry, “The House of Belonging.” He approaches this deep-rooted human desire in the most eloquent of ways.
David Whyte – House of Belonging
As you continue on your creative journey of life, think about who you can share your joys with, cry your tears with, and who (or what) will give you the space “to be you” without any form of judgment. There is no need for perfection in a circle of support. This is a place where you can be your most vulnerable and still feel loved and appreciated for who you are.
As you ponder your own tribe, consider these words from American writer and activist, Starhawk:
“Somewhere, there are people to whom we can speak with passion without having the words catch in our throats. Somewhere a circle of hands will open to receive us, eyes will light up as we enter, voices will celebrate with us whenever we come into our own power.”
Somewhere, there is a tribe waiting to welcome you with open arms and an open heart as the creative soul that you are.
You belong. We all belong. This beautiful planet isn’t just for a chosen group of us. It’s for ALL of us!
We all have a place in this world. Don’t let anyone tell you any differently!
If you feel called to join our Moonlight Muse tribe, you can find us on Facebook by visiting this link: The Moonlight Muse
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I’m always ready to welcome you into our beautiful circle of spiritual artists, creative leaders, and innovative thinkers! 🙂
6 Comments
Christine Sullivan
Hi Tina,
Your lovely post is speaking right to me as I begin a new phase of my journey with a wonderful new tribe. The Starhawk quote is so beautiful and truly captures the essence of what you describe.
All best,
Christine
Dorothy Fitzer
Tina – Lovely post. Thanks for the great references and love the image of the tribe. So important.
martha
Tina a beautiful post! It is so important to feel connected,loved, and supported by our tribe!
Thank you! Love the image!
Patricia
What a lovely post Tina! It’s so true, we need to feel that connection with like minded people. Loved the article! thanks for sharing! 🙂
Cher Gunderson
Great topic Tina. Thank you for your support and encouragement to nurture this need in us and for the recommended book.
Cher Gunderson
masteryouraccent.com
Teena Evert
Tina this is such an empowering post! When we don’t feel we belong and are treading in the disconnection waters we feel like we are drowning, but with the right support we can float and go with the flow of the divine. Thank you!
Teena
http://www.coupletherapyconnection