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The Ripple Effect of Gratitude

GratitudeCan you imagine a world where everyone showed gratitude?

If someone did something kind for you, you’d probably give them a warm smile and say thank you.

And if you were having a bad day, someone else might take time out of his or her life to comfort you, making you feel better.

It’s these acts of kindness that prompt people to show their gratitude by doing something similar for someone else.

Like a skipping stone in a pond, acts of gratitude have the potential to create a ripple effect.

Have you said thank you to someone today – to show how grateful you are for them? It seems like a small thing, but it can have a huge impact on your life and the life of the person you’re thanking.

Here are a few ways you can express your gratitude (either to yourself or to someone else):

  1. Maintain a gratitude journal – List five things that you are grateful for every day.
  2. Send a thank-you note – Either to yourself or someone else. It’s nice to get a little note thanking you for something you did, so why not send one to yourself? Perhaps you can thank your body for being in good health or thank yourself for being in a happy mood. ~ And for someone else – send a thank you card, a little note, or an email expressing your thanks. It can go a long way (remember the ripple effect)!
  3. Give someone a smile or a hug – When you’re in the grocery store, smile at the cashier. When you see a friend or loved one, greet them with a hug.
  4. Do someone a favor – Without expecting anything in return, do something nice for someone. Actions speak louder than words – and doing something nice is a wonderful way to show gratitude.
  5. Give someone a list of all they’ve done that you’re grateful for – Take five minutes and make a list of 10 (or more) things you love about someone – or things they’ve done for you that you appreciate.
  6. Acknowledge someone publicly – Who doesn’t love public praise? Find a way to acknowledge the contributions of someone by showing your gratitude in a public way. Perhaps you can write about them on your blog or write a special “letter to the editor” of a local newspaper or newsletter – or make a special public announcement of some kind.
  7. Say thanks, even for the negative things in your life – When things go wrong, when we’re not happy, when people are mean to us, when we are worn down by the million slings and arrows of everyday life – we don’t want to say thank you. But in truth, this is the time when it matters most. ~ Take a moment to stop and close your eyes, and find things to be thankful for – your health, your family, your job, the roof over your head, the fact that you’ll have a next meal, the beauty of the world around you, the good people in your life, your new computer. Whatever you can think of, be thankful for them and express that gratitude somehow. Realize that all is not bad in this world – and be happy for that.

If you’d like to explore the benefits of gratitude on a deeper, more personal level, please join me for my special e-course: Gratitude Journaling: Being Thankful for Everyday Gifts

This 30-day e-course begins with an introduction to gratitude journal writing and the many practical benefits that you can apply to your day-to-day life. You’ll also learn about intention-setting and how a special dedication in your journal can support your intentions. This will be followed by 21 days of journaling prompts designed to highlight the many good things in your life.

And the more you journal with gratitude, the more you’ll have to be grateful for and the more abundant you will feel.

Here’s to a rich and beautiful spring season filled with abundant blessings!

Tina M. Games is the author of Journaling by the Moonlight: A Mother’s Path to Self-Discovery (an interactive book with an accompanying deck of 54 journaling prompt cards). As a certified creativity and life purpose coach, and a gifted intuitive, she is the “Moonlight Muse” for women who want to tap into the “full moon within” and claim their authentic self, both personally and professionally. Through her signature coaching programs, based on the phases of the moon, Tina gently guides women from darkness to light as they create an authentic vision filled with purpose, passion and creative expression. She lives on Cape Cod in Massachusetts with her husband and their two children.

6 Comments

  • Bonnie Nussbaum

    I love all of these suggestions, but I particularly love the one about sending a thank you card. So few people send actual cards anymore and it really only takes a minute or two to crank one out. I carry a few blank cards with me so when I get a minute, I can think of someone I want to bless with a note and off it goes!

  • Patricia Young

    Great post Tina!! I really like all your suggestions!
    I love doing my gratitude journal every morning. It really makes me feel grounded and my day starts in a more positive way. Thanks for sharing! 🙂

  • Jill Greinke

    Great suggestions Tina! Expressing gratitude is definitely a lost art and is something we all really need to practice. Something like a simple smile can make someones day.

  • Josee

    Wonderful blog Tina. I have a gratitude journal by my bed that I write in every night. It had made a difference in my life. It’s amazing how one comes to see all they have to be thankful for once you start journaling. Good luck with the ecourse. I’m sure it will benefit whom ever signs up.

  • Beth Tunis

    Thanks Tina for sharing these tips! I’ve invited clients to write themselves letters, but recently participated in an event where I wrote a letter to myself and the organizer mailed it which I just received the other day – it worked! I forgot about the letter so was both surprised and delighted to read my ideas…… so instead of just reading your blog I’ll try a tip and see how it goes!!

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